QUESTION - I have been thinking negatively for a long time as I am in a weird relationship. He doesn't talk to me about anything ..sometimes if I ask I don't get the answers I am looking for. Recently we argued and he doesn't cuddle or make love to me in bed but he will cuddle me when he goes work and give me a kiss and when he gets home, otherwise I get nothing. Is there a spell for this please?
ANSWER - Relationships can be complicated things to manage and generally I’d say they are tricky enough without adding magic into the mix. This may be an obvious question but prior to asking witches on the internet for spells to make this relationship work have you sat down with this man and discussed your concerns with him? Have you explained why his behaviour is making you feel rejected and tried to establish a way forward that works for you both?
Spells may seem like an attractive quick fix but in truth I know of no witch who would leap straight in with the magic before making every effort first to communicate rationally with their partner. This situation, as with all love orientated magics runs the risk that if you do use magic to manipulate the feelings and emotions of another person you are then in a position where you can never be certain that any feelings toward you are genuine. This will eventually lead to resentment and likely the end of your relationship.
My advice is to tackle this head on and be upfront about how you are feeling. Put some time aside in a neutral environment (my husband always knows what’s coming when I suggest a trip to the pub!) and discuss things calmly. Give him a chance to tell you how he is feeling as well. Relationships are not all one way, if it isn’t working for you then chances are it isn’t working for him at the moment either. Talk it through together.
I don’t have a spell to “fix it” but what I would suggest if you want to use magic to help you resolve this is you do a working to encourage him to be open and honest. There are hundreds of ways you can do this but something simple that comes to mind is you draw his image on a piece of tracing paper and cut it out as a representation of him. Dilute a few drops of essential oil in a base (try peppermint, the mints are good for work of a clarifying nature) and gently brush the oil over your representation. Visualise his willingness to be open with you and your ability to see into his thoughts and feelings as the image slowly turns transparent with the oil. Dry the representation out and store it safely until after your relationship discussion.
Image http://www.deviantart.com/art/love-196053547
ANSWER - Relationships can be complicated things to manage and generally I’d say they are tricky enough without adding magic into the mix. This may be an obvious question but prior to asking witches on the internet for spells to make this relationship work have you sat down with this man and discussed your concerns with him? Have you explained why his behaviour is making you feel rejected and tried to establish a way forward that works for you both?
Spells may seem like an attractive quick fix but in truth I know of no witch who would leap straight in with the magic before making every effort first to communicate rationally with their partner. This situation, as with all love orientated magics runs the risk that if you do use magic to manipulate the feelings and emotions of another person you are then in a position where you can never be certain that any feelings toward you are genuine. This will eventually lead to resentment and likely the end of your relationship.
My advice is to tackle this head on and be upfront about how you are feeling. Put some time aside in a neutral environment (my husband always knows what’s coming when I suggest a trip to the pub!) and discuss things calmly. Give him a chance to tell you how he is feeling as well. Relationships are not all one way, if it isn’t working for you then chances are it isn’t working for him at the moment either. Talk it through together.
I don’t have a spell to “fix it” but what I would suggest if you want to use magic to help you resolve this is you do a working to encourage him to be open and honest. There are hundreds of ways you can do this but something simple that comes to mind is you draw his image on a piece of tracing paper and cut it out as a representation of him. Dilute a few drops of essential oil in a base (try peppermint, the mints are good for work of a clarifying nature) and gently brush the oil over your representation. Visualise his willingness to be open with you and your ability to see into his thoughts and feelings as the image slowly turns transparent with the oil. Dry the representation out and store it safely until after your relationship discussion.
Image http://www.deviantart.com/art/love-196053547
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