I would like to try the mirror and poppet to reflect back her anger. Do you offer some sort of lesson in such a thing? And I am wondering if the cost? You are right, doing no (or as little) harm is important to me. I just want her to get on with her life and hopefully find happiness.
ANSWER – Ah yes, I remember the question, thank you for getting back in touch. I’m afraid our website doesn’t offer any paid services at this current moment in time but I will certainly be glad to talk you through how I would go about casting such a spell and to my mind these things work better when cast by an involved party rather than a third person anyway.
(Shouldn’t take too much recall as I did one myself only three weeks ago and the target is being suitably respectful these days, lol)
The poppet itself can be made of anything you feel comfortable with using and you have to hand. Some people like to sew a cotton poppet, others like to work with melted wax. My own preference is plasticine as I like to say a few well chosen words about manipulating the person while I’m moulding the likeness out of the plasticine.
The key thing when doing any work with a poppet is to reinforce the link between the poppet and the person it is representing as much as possible. This can be achieved in lots of different ways. You can add their hair, nails or other body parts to it. You could carve their name on it, wrap the poppet in a scrap of the person’s clothing or even attach something personal like a piece of thread to create a link to them.
(I did an interesting variation of this recently where the only thing I could get belonging to the person was a business card so I fastened that to the poppet.) The only important element is that in your mind the finished poppet is a firm link to the person in question.
Next I suggest you buy a cheap compact mirror, one of those that folds closed and has two mirrors when opened up. This will become the symbol for the reflection of the anger.
Next you need a symbol for the pain and distress that you want reflecting back. I almost always use hypodermic needles for this purpose but a sewing needle would work just as well. It’s very important to understand that you are using this as a symbol of pain and not in the more “Pop Voodoo” sense of creating actual physical pain or damage with the use of the needle. Your target will not suffer a heart attack because you have pierced them through the heart with a needle.
(To give you a better idea one spell I did along these lines that involved an awful lot of needles in my poor long suffering poppet resulted in loss of job and breakdown of marriage. Had the spell been designed to cause physical damage he’d have sunk like a stone the next time he had a bath due to the amount of holes I had poked in him!) My point being that you need not worry you are going to cause undesired damage. Intention is what drives magic and as you do not have the intention to cause physical harm you will not cause results that you don’t want your target to experience.
Now take a symbol of yourself, I do like the idea of using a button for this as it needs to be something small that you can place it the mirror compact. Anoint the button with an oil known for its protective properties – I’d suggest Niaouli but have a look at the oils section of the website if you only have a limited few at home.
Stand the mirror up and place the button in front of the mirror (might be easier to fix it on if you can, a bit of blu tak would work). Hold the poppet in front of the mirror toward the button and visualise the hate and anger and negativity projecting out of the poppet. This is the real key to the spell. The better the visualisation, the more you can sustain in your mind an image of what they are putting out toward you, the more likely this spell is to work well.
Now visualise the negativity being projected hitting the mirror instead of you. (Try visualising as a simple image like a beam of light. If it takes that kind of physical shape in your mind it will help strengthen the power of the spell). Affirm the visualisation clearly out loud, stating that anything sent out to you will be reflected back to the person sending it. Name them, get the wording of your spell as specific as possible. As you visualise the anger, hate and pain being reflected back, poke your poppet decisively with your needles. Imagine them suffering the same levels of frustration and anguish that you have experienced while you do this.
Hold this focus for a few minutes and then remove the button, take the poppet and place it inside the folding mirror so they are front and back to a mirror when it closes. Tie the mirror closed with a piece of string and place somewhere safe.
I hope this works for you. Please let us know the outcome of this one!
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