Can I be in contact with someone I don't know in the dream world?

QUESTION - I keep on having dreams/visions about the same male celebrity. They're very vivid and sometimes I'm in them, sometimes not. I've been having the same recurring dreams/visions since 2008, the same theme is always there though, he and I are in love, then something bad happens whatever it may be, cheating lies etc. and the whole cycle starts again. The strange thing is I have never met him, I only got to know him in 2008 through his music, that I liked. Which is when the dreams started. His mates have heard of me though, as they follow me on social media, which I find a bit coincidental. Also sometimes the dreams show me in the past, with him and I in a relationship, but in my waking life this has never happened. What should I do about it? Is it possible he (the celebrity I like) knows about it? What is happening to me?

Dreaming of a specific person on a regular basis can of course be as simple as the fact that they are in your conscious thoughts but it can also have a deeper meaning. Sometimes our dreams can offer us practical suggestions – you might dream of misfortune happening to somebody you haven’t seen for a while for example. This doesn’t mean something bad is going to happen to them but your sub conscious is reminding you of their importance in your life and bringing to the forefront of your mind the suggestion that it is time to get back in touch. The repetition of a dream can suggest there is a block in your mind that is stopping you from moving forward. Think carefully about any lessons this dream is trying to teach you about moving onward. Are you fixing on a certain part of your life (perhaps a part of your life when you listened to the music of this man and experienced great happiness). Is your dream a suggestion that your past is holding you back from your future?

Precognition through dreams (although rare) is also possible and there are times when a dream can be a warning of a possible future. As with most methods of divination, a dream can only ever show a possible future. Dreaming of a negative event isn’t confirmation that event will come about but it can be a heads up to look at the direction in which things are headed and a warning that the power is in the hands of the individual to prevent the negativity reflected in the dream.

You are right to believe contact can be established through the dream world though usually I would expect it to happen between people who know each other. This can be contact between the living and the living or the dead and the living but rarely have I read cases of it being between people who do not know each other. (Although I suppose one could argue that it would be hard to prove it if this was the case). I wouldn’t personally rule out the possibility of contact between people you have known at other times in other lives but I would definitely urge a strong caution to anybody trying to use such a tenuous link as proof to confirm a soul mate. Turning up on somebody’s door, explaining you dream about them a lot and insisting they have an obligation to get to know you because you are soul mates is likely to get you certified. It doesn’t mean that there isn’t a link between you but it does mean the time isn’t right to affirm it at least not in this lifetime.

Celebrities are very tricky things in dreams. The reason for this is the fact that they bridge the gap between people we know and people we do not know. We know celebrities not well enough to have an understanding of their actual personalities but well enough to use them as a hook to project onto them all the things we want them to be. This can make them far more powerful romantic figures than anybody we meet in the real world. In real life we have to put up with what people genuinely are, warts and all. With celebrities we can manipulate them in our minds into what we want them to be. This makes them perfect vessels to fill with the imagination of our dream selves.

So if you are dreaming of a celebrity whom you do not know personally I would take a good look at the attributes he possesses in your dreams. You don’t know him well enough to be dreaming about the real man but what you can take from his status in your dreams is an understanding of what it is you want from a man. Whatever his personality is in your dreams it is a creation of the inner workings of your mind. An excellent guide to finding the right partner in real life and a level of understanding about yourself that you would be well advised not to overlook.

I don’t think it is likely if I’m honest that he knows you are dreaming about him. You might find some witches who place a greater emphasis on the magical nature of the dream world but I’m actually quite scientific in my own approach to dreams and I do believe that in the main they are a tool to be used for illuminating the thought processes of your own mind rather than forming a link to somebody else’s.  As I’ve said, I think the value in these dreams lies in you developing a greater knowledge of yourself with a view to forming worthwhile relationships in the future using this knowledge.


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