My husband's ex wife, who left him after she had affairs, and who takes reality and bends and changes it so she can feel in the right, has been taking him to court over and over for the last few years. She has told their adult child that she will never stop taking him to court until she gets what she deserves. She has lied to the government about her income and has lied to the court about how "evil" he is to her and their child. (I have not only his say in this, but also his child's- who is estranged from mother has chosen to live solely with father).
Please tell me how to banish this woman from our lives, and still do no harm? We have spent $60k in legal fees and it is time for this to be over.
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Your question is a tricky one. It isn't the banishing element itself that is the problem. It is the do no harm bit that concerns me. You might get a different answer from a different witch but it's my strong opinion that you need to make a choice here. Do it and be comfortable with the harm element or leave spell work out of it. I say this for a couple of reasons. The situation itself is full of negative energy that you will need to draw on to get any success out of a banishing. If you are not comfortable doing this then any spell work will fall flat on its face. Also, the kind of working you intend - a banishing - is by its very nature magic that involves harm.
Think of it as self defence in a fight, a little push isn't going to stop anybody, you need to give someone a good thump or a hard punch to win the fight.
You need to be comfortable that you genuinely want this woman out of your lives at any cost and you need to be happy with the fact that this will probably not end very well for her. If you really can't abide the idea of harm you could try a binding but many witches would agree that a binding also causes harm as it negates a person's free will and prevents them from acting in the direction they would have taken without magical intervention.
I think your best bet is to use this woman's own negativity against her, that way you won't feel guilty about projecting your own animosity toward her. I would suggest you go along the lines of a mirroring spell where the women receives back whatever she projects toward you. This can be achieved with a simple working involving a mirror and a poppet. The key to this kind of spell is establishing the link between the hate she is sending your way and the "bounce back" to her. I can talk you through banishing spells in more detail (just ping me again) if you like but I honestly think that if the harm none caveat is important to you this kind of spell will be more effective for your needs.